Salaam world.
I was just yapping away about how good Ar-Rayyans Nanny is and with a blink of an eye, his nanny told me that she wants to go home. Yes, Indonesia home. I am very not happy about it, pretty angry and frustrated because at that moment time, in my head, who is going to look after Ar-Rayyan?
His nanny told me that she miss her children very much and she can’t work properly with her mind clouded by the image of her kids. I totally can understand that, i am after all a mummy myself. I miss Ar-Rayyan when i am at work too. For now, Ar-Rayyans nanny is still with me, and will send her back to agent later, after work. Just maybe the agent can pun some sense into her. I don’t know. This is really beyond my control. I know so, maybe this is my balasan for i am a human and i know so i have sins. Astagafirullah.
So what are we to do now? It doesn’t feel right to ask the parents (including my parents in law) to take care of Ar-Rayyan. I can’t take Ar-Rayyan to work either. How i wish they have baby day care around,just so i can peep and feed Rayyan when its time to do so. Maybe I should propose this, because i heard some office ada baby day care 
bliss.
Twiddle twoodle. Enough twiddling. Maybe its time for me to get a passport done for our little angel. Should take him and fly soon. December awaits. InshaAllah.
Lots of love,
Aizah aka Ruddys’ wife aka ArRayyans Mummy.
Salam huns, my friend’s maid also had the same issue. What she did was brought her maid over here so my mum and maid can talk sense into her. Lols. It worked. But a tip from my maid, when i asked her if she was in the same situation what would she had us done or say to her thay would convince her to stay.
She said be a friend to the maid and allow her to freely communicate with her children but within limits of course.
And thats what mum and i did. We would often talk to her, sat down and share stories over a cup of tea. We gave her a basic fon which wud allow her to call and talk to her child in philippine.
If you havent sent her back then try coaxing her nicely to stay.
good luck huns!
Salam huns
last three days ago, both mother in law and sister in law talked some sense into her. They talked to her about it nicely and Ar-Rayyans nanny decided not to go home. She even told me that she would wait till Ar-Rayyan is at least a year old. But yesterday morning, she changed her mind. If anything, we even let her talk to her family, as soon as she sat in our car for the first time.
So we talked about it again yesterday, and i can see that she was in two world. She wanted to stay but at the same time she cant help but want to go as well because of her youngest child. Her youngest is only 1 year old. I guess i understand why she really-really wanted to leave. So both Ruddy and I decided to send her back to her agent yesterday but i am not sure if she will be send back to her country. Because of her hutang and all.
Thank you btw. For now, my plan is to get a new maid yang not married, or married but anak besar sudah. hehe. InshaAllah.
Thank you again for the advice baby girl hehe